Jay's friend in the IT department buzzed him and told him that her fellow IT gal posted Jay's name on a blog, quoting that he's a liar. Imagine, the girl who told us was whom she thought was her friend.
I am not suppose to react since I told Jay that you might be forgiven but you have to face the consequences of your former actions. As his partner, I will always be here to support him but I won't take the bullets for him. People need to learn and with me on Jay's side, I guess he has already learned so much. The thing is she has been so bitter and he hated Jay and I so much, that she keeps on checking Jay's Face Book and my blog entries but she's already committed to someone else (I was suppose to quote his name since he's my cousin's classmate in MIT and so as his tiwn, but I don't want to revert the cheapness and I respect their privacy).
.As a woman thinking Out Loud.
I was just wondering how would her partner feel about her gf's bitterness? How would he feel upon her gf's entries of hatred and animosity to Jay and I in almost 25% of her blog entries (as mentioned by her friend)? Knowing that there's nothing between her and Jay, why is she reacting as if there was something? Isn't she thinking that because of what she's doing, the more that people would believe that she's hostile and regretful and that she's so obsessed with Jay? How would she be respected if she can't even respect herself and her partner? Isn't she looking cheap placing Jay's name on her blog enjoining the name of her bf? Haven't she thought that Jay's being glorified and dignified knowing that until now, she's stuck with him and she can't move on because of Jay? Isn't her bf looking like a fall back because she got him and she still can't forget Jay? Considering that it's her blog and she can do anything and can do everything in her possession, is it for an educated-responsible person to express an opinion in a derrogatory manner on a public medium? If she's so furiously mad and she would want to express the feeling in writing, can she be more creative in doing such rather than “naming” a person. Is that the best that she can do or her mind's so limited to think on how to create excitement on her blog? How is she coping up with her life now? Does she believe that mother knows best and her attitude might be the reason why her bf's mom doesn't like her and so as Jay's mom? Ahhh... poor little girl..
Whether good or bad publicity, publicity is still publicity! And this is a publicity for Jay!
9 comments:
maybe it's better if u tell those things into her face rather than broadcasting it here where the only people who read are your so-called friends. para fair...
Hi, whoever you are. I really admire your passion in reading my blog considering that the print's terribly colored. Nonetheless, I would like to thank you for still appreciating the content. I also appreciate the advice, thanks a lot. I also thought about doing so, but Jay told me that it's really not necessary since I need so much effort to stoop down to her level if I do it pa. Besides, Jay even mentioned that she's a poor little girl with a poor past that's why I pity her when Jay told me about her story. She needs so much understanding as she undergone so much trauma in her life. As a logical person, I guess I now understood why she seemed to be who she is. But thanks for the advise. Keep on reading girl! :)
Hi girl, besides.. I travel a lot so I have no time of getting to her face to face coz I believe she's living somewhere in a skimpy place in QC (really don't know since I haven't been there- Jay had). My so called friends are my real friends. Most of them, I know personally. Sorry to disappoint you, but I know most of them. :)
yes, i really believe you don't need to stoop down to her level. because if you do, wala na kayong pinagkaiba.
and this is your blog, this is your space.. pwede mo isulat maski ano gusto mong sabihin. nasasa nagbabasa na yun kung ano irereact nila. kahit pa sabihin na mga "so-called friends" mo lang ang nagbabasa nito, importante pa rin na mairelease mo kung ano ang gusto mo sabihin.
basta wag na wag kang pumatol sa kacheapan. importante yun. :)
ipagpray mo na lang na sana maging masaya na ang buhay nya para di na puro angst ang sinusulat nya. :)
@AC: thanks girl.. hahaha.. sobrang cheap nga I agree and that's not our level. miss yah! tc
ANON: yeah, in your case, that's what you'll do. in our world, we choose to find our outlet wisely. like blogging. and im afraid you cant chew that. :)
@Myk2ts: I agree with you entirely, mare! Besides, I think we really shouldn't splurge to her "anonymous" thingy which only shows that she isn't a biggie at all.I definitely am sure that she is who I am referring to. If you don't do anything at work- that's what she does- read my blog.. I am so flattered. She's even peeking at my friendster.. I am so prone to flattery you know that mare.. I miss you anyway mare- you take care and let's just not make 'patol'- NOT OUR LEVEL-her comment's derived from a true situation... love yah mare. :)
TO ANONYMOUS: Lam mo YANG comment mo, nabubuko ka kung sino ka! Wag ka ng magcomment ng ganun kasi halata ka na. Isa ka din for sure sa naaapektuhan sa relasyon nila. Kay ka iniiwan eh, mukha kang probinsyana!
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